Twin Flames Holding Space with Unconditional Love

The Waiting

You have been "awakened and aware" that you are a twin flame, that you are so intimately connected with another person that there is no denial and no escape.  You may have even tried every manner of attempting to disconnect from them, to "cut the cords" or untether your heart to allow you some peace of mind, some sanctuary from the longing, only to discover that this is impossible. You love this person with all of your heart and every portion of your being desires to Be with them... and it yet has to manifest.  Your Twin Flame may not seem to heed the call of your heart, may not seem to respond to your beckoning, may not seem to step into their divinity and may seem to continue to play the static, circling games of illusory 3D. 


You submit, you surrender to the inevitable realization that you must walk through the fire to get to the other side.  You do your inner work, smoothing out the kinks and cramps of old, outdated non-loving patterns, catching your triggers and diligently, mindfully working through responding to outer and inner conflict with love and forgiveness, compassion and empathy.  You find all of your fears and face them head-on, stepping into the fire and walking through the pain, discovering that each test tempers your strength further.

With infinite patience and unconditional love you reach out to your Eternal Beloved and let them know that you will always love them, that you hold the space for them to step into being with you, that you are committed to them and your union, that you have no desire to be with anyone else.




And still, your Twin has yet to fully and completely yield to physical reunion with you.


Many "awakened" Twin Flames continue to wonder about the timeline of their physical union with their divine counterpart, continue to wonder about the direction and installation of their "mission."  You know (and may have known for years now) that you have work to do, and this work is to be done together with your Twin Flame. 


One may become frustrated or irritated with the length of time, the manner in which they will reunite with their twin flame, and even attempt to throw up their hands in despair, wondering how could their Beloved be so blind to the connection, or even have the energy to turn their eyes away from you and continue to wall up their heart?

Twin Flames: The Unity of the Pair

When you start to wonder "why?" they are acting the way they do, or not acting the way you expect them to act, it is imperative to remember that You Are One.  What does this mean, exactly? 


Being a Twin Flame means that you are the same soul expression, the same vibrational imprint as your counterpart- one embodying the more female aspect and the other embodying the more male aspect.  Both of you have lived lifetimes of experience, of expansion of awareness through trial and error in relationship with others, with the world, with belief systems and with the self.  Each Twin Flame pair has encountered beautiful and harrowing experiences, tested the boundaries of relationship to sometimes extreme levels.  We have gone into the deepest, darkest recesses of what it means to be human, sometimes to the detriment of our soul's love and light, causing rips and rifts in our ability to remember the path of Divine Love.


Soul damage has occurred; the pair of Twins has become encumbered by fear and guilt on either end of the spectrum of experience.  One aspect may respond by lashing out or attempting to control others.  The other aspect may respond by withdrawing.  Both responses are evidence of fear, guilt, shame and unstable inner love of self.

Because You Are One with your Twin Flame, it is imperative to remember that, had you walked the same path as your Beloved has walked, you would have responded the very same way!  Do not judge your Beloved Twin Flame in the manner by which they process this Divine Journey into Mastering Love.  This opportunity is another gift for you to Master and embody your own expansive ability to hold the space for them with unconditional love, with infinite patience, with ultimate faith and trust in Divine Timing and with absolutely no pressure! 


Use this time to continue to cultivate your own Mastery of Divine Love, to prepare the stage for your mission together so that your Twin Flame may easily step into their role when it is time.  Keep yourself open and available, holy and pure; be the vessel to receive your guidance by meditation, journaling, prayer, and all methods you have discovered to go within to stay centered within your peace.  Keep constant contact with your intuitive guidance and your higher self.  Remember, harbor no ill feelings toward your Eternal Beloved.  They Are You, and to hold anything less than love is to not love yourself, and not trust in the process that you have agreed upon.

In the meanwhile, keep in mind that the more you can mindfully and lovingly contain this magnificent holding space, the more potential energy you garner, and, like coiled springs, will manifest amazing, mind-blowing energy when you DO come together.