When two people form a relationship, a new bond forged and a trajectory of how this bond sets course is created. This goes for any type of relationship,
whether the connection is physical, emotional, mental or spiritual. You are setting the parameters with each new
beginning and molding the pattern as time and energy is invested in the
relationship. Would you like to be treated
with respect? Act respectfully. Guide the tone. Set the bar by your loving example. How about having fun? By being playful you're manifesting it. Act with intention. Give freely and without expectation. Love is not conditional.
Do not overtly or covertly flaunt yourself, ladies. Our power resides in maintaining our integrity,
holding the embers of our passion in the center of our being and letting it
guide us with smooth confidence. It is a
huge disservice to our gender to
intentionally manipulate men or make other people feel uncomfortable by our
sexuality. We are the life-bearers, the
nurturers, the sweet song of creation able to manifest and share great heights
of pleasure. Guard your sexuality and do
not give away your power. You are the
keepers of the Divine Feminine Sexual Power and you are teaching people your boundaries, how to treat you as the lovely and Divine Queen that you are. Hold yourself in reverence, rejoice in your
magnificent beauty and shine with your radiance!
Men, honor the beauty of the creature called woman. Hold this vision of her purity in your heart
with reverence. To love is to give, not
to take, pressure, manipulate or coerce.
Do not drain her with your need.
Do not use her for your lust.
Empower that which you love and it shall be returned to you ten-thousand
fold. Women truly want to share pleasure with their Beloved and if they are centered in
themselves, will be loyal, steadfast and true when met with equal integrity,
trust and respect.
Do not make it inhospitable for women to expose our
attractiveness. We are such beautiful
flowers, ready to unfurl without fear of being plucked or pressed, reduced or
raped. Do not take the joy out of what
is exquisite by defiling it and lowering its value. A woman is not an object to hunt, capture and
conquer as conquest. Likewise a man is
not to be scorned, ridiculed or snubbed when he genuinely comes with loving intentions
and her heart is not to be given. Thank
him for becoming vulnerable to you, for honoring you with his integrity, and respectfully
decline his offer with nothing but the most loving heart. Good, loving and sincere men must be met with
the same highly esteemed manner that they bestow to perpetuate the harmony of
equality and respect.
Social patterns are established by families, schools, places
of worship, our personal community and the media culture in which we are
raised. Each of us are a part of
several of these facets. How we interact with people in public and in
private makes an impression and causes a ripple that extends far beyond
the instant it is created. It takes mindful consideration
and pro-active conscious energy to uproot this well-established division
between love and sex. To completely
cease unhealthy sexual expression, we must pro-actively re-learn and
re-implement our associations, beliefs and behaviors. We are swimming upstream and turning the
cultural current. It takes effort,
patience, cooperation, compassion and diligence if we are to consciously evolve this
template of relating with each other.
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